Three Kids and a Dog

Tuesday, December 06, 2016

Sadie's First Snow

Sadie was born Feb. 28, 2016 so she probably doesn't remember snow last year. Therefore, this year was her first real snow.

She didn't know what to make of it at first. She stood there sniffing it almost paralyzed in the heavy, wet snow that enveloped her paws. Then she did what she usually does - she started eating it. Mouthfuls. Upon mouthfuls. 

After her belly grew full, she started running. Oh what fun it is to frolic through the snow, she found out. She knocked Hailey down more than once as she played crazily in the yard. She stole her gloves and delighted in us chasing her around the yard trying to retrieve it before she decided to eat it. 

Like Adler, Sadie who never did like the sun, loves the snow. She'll go outside run around and lay it in it for hours. All that fresh air certainly tires her out but not enough to stop her from stealing the ornaments off the tree and running under our long dining room table with them so we can't get her! Sadie is definitely getting coal in her stocking this Xmas!

Monday, November 28, 2016

The Tree Farm

I know I've written before about our annual trek over to Indiana/Michigan to Dudeck's Tree Farm to cut down our Christmas tree with several good friends. It's a tradition we have kept up every year since 2001 for Tom and me. We added friends to our trip not long after and we've continued that tradition every year since then. Our kids only remember going to Dudeck's - they all have since they were born. They don't know anything different. So this year imagine Peyton's disappointment when she learned that Austen's double header soccer game conflicted with our annual tree cutting.

We were able to make some adjustments much to Peyton's delight (since she's told us that her new boyfriend is one of our friend's first grade sons so she definitely didn't want to miss our event and him!). The kids ate donuts, drank hot chocolate and delighted in playing a game of flag football while the adults caught up before hopping on the wagon to find our trees. They visited Santa - well, except for Hailey who still wouldn't go near Santa despite her constant talk about him beforehand.  And, later Austen made us laugh when he spied Santa texting and announced it to all. (BTW, he still believes.) Peyton had the best reply - "I know why he is texting," she said. "He needs to tell the elves what we want for Christmas so they can get started" "That's exactly right," I said. Phew, saved by Peyton!

Sadie also joined us for her first annual tree cutting. I don't really recall Adler's first tree cutting, but I didn't have three kids to keep track of back then either so I'm sure it was easier too . What I will remember is Sadie trying to eat the seat belts in the back of our car on the way there (thankfully, we were able to tuck them away after she only dug her teeth into the plastic buckle) and how excited she was to be there. Maybe a little too excited! However, what was really special was a moment that happened just before we left.  A couple came over to talk to us about Sadie. They said they also had a 4 year old Bernese Mountain Dog. I said well, this is our second one, we also had one before. They then asked if we brought her to the tree farm and we replied, yes, every year on this very weekend. "We met you then!" they said. She's the reason we got our Berner!  It was because we met your dog so many years ago and vowed to get one too." Wow! What a special memory of our Adler girl. She lives on daily in so many ways.

Anyway, we picked out our tree, Hailey enjoyed the horses pulling the wagons, Peyton liked hanging out with her "boyfriend," and Austen liked directing the little kids playing football. I love this tradition even though it hasn't always been easy with little kids and puppies underfoot but the memories we all have are ones that we know our kids will have forever.

Hut Hut Hike!

The guys and Shannon.

The girls. Where was Lisa?

Santa! (Before he was texting.)

L.O.V. E.

Sadie's first trip to the tree farm.


Sunday, November 20, 2016

Old Friends

 "Growing apart doesn't change the fact that for a long time we grew side by side; our roots will always be tangled. I'm glad for that."

Ally Condie

More than eight years ago we met a special group of people. Austen wasn't even 2 when we walked into his classroom at the Montessori school he went to in the city for his new class orientation. One guy wore a white suit and another woman asked too many questions but little did we know that we would grow to be great friends - our kids AND us! 

Bound by the friendship of our first borns and all in the same boat as full time working moms, we got together on New Year's, for Apple picking, birthday parties and to decorate cookies. We vacationed together, our kids shared their first sleepover, and  some of us had our second kids together. 

Sadly, it was short lived. Everyone moved. One family to Sweden, another to Texas and two to the Chicago suburbs while one stayed in the city. However, every so often we still get together. Tonight it was to see the play "A Christmas Carol" at the Goodman Theatre in Chicago because Nate, one of Austen's friends in this group was playing Tiny Tim. 

Seven years later the kids still picked up where they left off after some initial shyness as they were all only 5 when everyone went their separate ways  and our reunions aren't as frequent as we would like!

I wish they all still went to the same school. We all have new parent friends now but nothing like we had together then when our kids were 2.

Sunday, November 13, 2016

The Dog Ate My Homework

never thought I would write that but it's true. (Okay, the puppy ate Peyton's homework really.) It happened last Tuesday. Sadie has been gaining a little more freedom during the day when we've been out so I haven't been putting her in her crate - just confining her to part of the first floor. 
Overall she's been pretty good but apparently last week she entered the terrible twos. I came home to find all of the papers and books that I had left on the counter strewn about the floor and most of them were shredded. Thank God I returned the library books the day before but I quickly panicked as I scanned the floor for Peyton's blue homework packet. Oh no! Oh no! She had 75% of it done for the week already. Where was it?! I ran to the front hall and there before my eyes was tiny, shredded pieces of the blue homework packet. Nothing I could salvage or try to tape back together. Oh boy, what was I going to tell Peyton?!

It took me about 20 minutes to clean up the mess and then email her teacher saying the dog ate her homework and I needed a new packet. Lucky for me she was the one that broke the news to Peyton and sent her home with a new packet which to my surprise she sat down and redid with little complaining.

As for Sadie, she's grounded. Back in the crate for her when we are gone!


Monday, November 07, 2016

Funny Hailey

Sadie used to have a pen that was in our kitchen when she was a bit smaller, but lately we've given her most of our main floor to roam even when we are away. Before this happened, Hailey used to like to play with the doggie door on the pen that Sadie used to fit through for only a few weeks when she was a smaller puppy.

One afternoon, we had just finished lunch and I was busy cleaning up the dishes when I heard a little, "Mommy help me!" I couldn't see Hailey over our giant island that separated the voice from where I was at the sink so I walked around the island to see this!

Obviously, I assessed the situation to make sure she wasn't in distress, but I couldn't help but chuckle and grab my camera phone so I could get this shot of her trying to squeeze herself through the doggie door. Oh Hailey - you crack us up with the things you do and say.

Sunday, October 30, 2016

Pumpkin Farm - We Finally Made It!


One of the top things that the kids like to do in the fall is take our annual trip to the Pumpkin Farm. Tom and I have been going to the same one since before we had kids and for almost every year since, we've gone back.

This year, I really had to analyze the calendar to see if we could squeeze in going due to the many varied sports schedules on the weekends. But last weekend, we finally made it albeit for less than two hours before we had to head back for a game.

Still we had are a few shots of them picking out their pumpkins.

Next up, seeing how tall they are this fall!

Favorite part of the trip - mining for rocks and getting these lion masks in their lunch bags.

Saturday, October 22, 2016

One Year

I can't believe it's been one year since Adler's been gone. It seems like so much longer. Losing her was one of the toughest things I've had to go through and learning to live without her was even harder. Yes, I know she was a dog and there are people who go through things that are so much harder but this is my world and in my world losing Addie was for me like losing a member of my family - because she was and always will be a part of my family. 

I said to Tom just the other day that I'm glad that we got another dog. He responded, "another dog or another Berner?" I said, "both." I am glad to have another animal in the house because I am an animal lover but I'm glad it's a Berner. Yes, Adler and Sadie are different dogs but because they are the same breed there are so many similarities. When Sadie does something it brings back memories of Adler doing the same thing and sometimes they are things that we've forgotten Adler did as a puppy because that was so long ago but seeing Sadie do them has us remembering her and happy times.

Adler may be gone from this world physically but having Sadie keeps her alive in so many ways. She's a part of our daily conversations in sometimes comparing and contrasting the two although we are always careful not to view Sadie as Adler's replacement. She's a different dog. She even looks different and her personality is different. When we go for walks, we always again are stopped by people who ask about her breed and Adler always comes up in conversation especially if we are talking about the breed with people who know the breed.

The kids too still talk about Adler. Hailey especially. Just last week we were on a walk with Sadie and there was another Berner walking toward us. Hailey started immediately shouting, look there's Addie! I can smile now when this happens. Yes, it's Addie saying hi to us! Also last week we were at the school book fair and there was a children's novel with a Berner on the cover. Hailey plucked it off the shelf and brought it to me and said, look there's Adler! It's interesting that she doesn't say they are Sadie. I wonder why.

So many times too Tom and I slip and sometimes call Sadie, "Adler." But I think that's like calling our children by the wrong names too! Austen and Peyton delight in catching us on this and sometimes we poke fun at each other when Adler's name just rolls off our tongue.

Sadie definitely is Adler's tribute. Without Adler there would be no Sadie. And without Sadie I think my heart would still be broken. I'll always miss Adler but after a year, I can finally remember her with smiles and laughter.

Hope all is well up there Addie. We talk and think about you daily. Know we will always love you and one day we'll see you again. We miss you and love you...always and forever.